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I'm one of the good ones in the pond

Male (52) looking for Female Honolulu, Hawaii, United States

A person that is once again at it. I am an IT professional and also a DJ that enjoys the music. I am an old fashioned romantic. I long for the true embrace of someone that can relate to my inner feelings. I like holding hands, hugs by surprise and embraces of appreciation; just for being present if at the least.
I want to feel these feelings once again and haven't in some time... I am trying to live again and rediscover myself because of this failed connection I recently have struggled with. I enjoy my work, however, not to the point of ever letting it interfere with someone I'd care about. I enjoy my music and once in a while I try to lose myself in my world, however, haven't been able to; just because...
I am just looking for mind like somebodies that would understand that and not take advantage and hurt...
I like walking on the beach and dreaming just like most in this mindset. WHY NOT???
I have plenty of stories to tell; I guess. I've been on the island of Oahu for three years now. I came from Maryland, however, born and raised in NYC.
I miss the environments from time to time and more so the shopping for the different flavors of fashion.
Presently sitting here and just wondering, I don't know if that tells you much. Maybe it tells you, just maybe what I'm going through.
I wish I could discuss this with someone that wants to not only hear, but listen...
I say to myself that I now I'm a good guy, haven't you said the same thing? Or am I by myself?
Anyway, I really am a nice hearted person with great carry overs that pay tribute to my Mother in which I've inherited. I can truly say, I get it and thank her royally.
My Father (rest his soul) was just one stubborn New Yorker that worked his butt off and that I've picked up from him. I miss him... I love them both.
Okay, I think I'll stop here. I don't know if this is the place for this; it's a box that just keeps letting me type away.
Thanks for letting me reflect myself...

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EthnicityLatino / Hispanic
National heritagePuerto Rican
Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDiabetes
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleSystems Engineer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports
Favorite TV showsThe Food Network, Beat Bobby Flay, etc.
BBQ Pit Masters Challenge (something like that...)
Football Season
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Horror, Thriller, Adult
Favorite moviesThe French Connection
The Godfather Part 1
Pelham 123 (Original)
The 7 Ups
Rocky 1 & 2
There's more...
Music typesRap, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Reggae
Favorite artistsMadonna
Janet Jackson
Michael Jackson
Chaka Khan
Evelyn Champagne King
Pink Floyd
Steely Dan
Reading selectionNews, Business, Computers, Health, Home & Garden, Instructional, Nature, Reference, Sports, Technical
Favorite booksI haven't any
HobbiesLearning, Music, TV, Movies, Dancing, Dining, Cooking


SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Cool dude
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Going shopping, The movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / bars, Going to a concert, Going to a museum


Political viewsDemocrat
Goal in lifeLeaving it in God's hands for guidance and strength. The rest is for me to figure out what to do when the opportunity's present themselves.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerIt's hard for me to say right now. Refer to my description.
On the first dateI long for true candle light dinner (yeah I said it), pleasant conversation, hopefully without the awkward pauses of silence (preferably).
Getting to know someone in a fashion that feels like (CLICK!) and no one else surrounding us would ever be a distraction. I chuckle, as I write this, however, I'd want this person to feel the connection as well.
What's to do on a first date? I don't know, I would want to maybe know that I would leave a good first impression and that she would do the same so that I could leave without forgetting her first name. Instead I'd like to possibly keep saying it in my head as to the pleasant feeling the first date went as two individuals would like... My thoughts...